How do I empower you?

On my journey of self-discovery, becoming my true authentic self involved some deep soul-searching and healing which forced me to let go of old erroneous beliefs, behavioural patterns, and emotions. This has produced many changes within my body as old energy has been released.

I have encountered various healing modalities along the way that have helped me to let go of old thought patterns, beliefs and energy and become true to who I am. These are what I have now trained in and are accredited to share with you, so that you may experience the same joy as I have, by acting freely.

I believe a holistic approach is best as we purify the mind and body, as the two are intrinsically linked.

Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), which is recognised and prescribed by the NHS has brought much success to me. CBT is a talking therapy that can help you manage your problems by changing the way you think, which generates different emotions in the body, which then create new behaviours and actions. Dr Aaron T. Beck created CBT in the 1960’s. Many philosophies influenced CBT but Beck concluded that Buddhism is closest to the underlying theory of CBT.

Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT), is a technique that stimulates acupressure points in the body by tapping on them whilst focusing on situations that represent personal fear and trauma.

EFT is brilliant as it doesn’t bypass a problem, but acknowledges it, works through it, and releases the emotion attached to whatever is being focused on. It does this by calming and deactivating the Amygdala which is linked to the Reptilian part of the brain. This is responsible for our fight or flight stress responses. By accessing this part of the brain, we can release old emotions and traumas that we were not able to resolve, feel, or cognitively process when they originally arose. This also lowers and reduces stress responses and anxiety.

I have had much success with this technique for releasing old childhood wounds and emotions behind erroneous beliefs. Cells of our body store trauma, and it’s important to release old emotions as we learn new neurological thought patterns.

I also use Mindfulness techniques which are similar to CBT and can help to turn your waking life into a constant meditation, where you are able to witness and acknowledge all that is going on in your mind each day. Like CBT, these mindfulness techniques are linked to Buddhism.

Angelic Reiki is different to traditional Usui Reiki and is much shorter and intense. Reiki flushes the body of old emotions on a cellular level by inviting new energy in the cleanse and purify the body. Everything in this world is energy and your body is no exception.

Connecting with the Angelic realms offers a very loving, powerful and healing experience. I have had very profound emotional catharsis and shifts within using Angelic Reiki, and this is why I want to share it with you.

Another healing modality and one that I have had deep transformation from is Pranayama or Breathwork. This is a another form of healing that allows you to tap into the natural power of the body by simply breathing which uses the life force or energy of the Universe that is within us and that exists all around us.

Pranayama dates back as long as 500-800 BCE in Hindu texts and the Upanishads. These ancient breathing techniques are purifying to the mind and body and allow the cells to release old stored emotion, so energy may flow freely around the body.

There are many different types of breathing techniques that can activate the sympathetic and parasympathetic nervous system – each will offer unique and different results depending on what you want to achieve. There are activating breaths, as well as cooling and purifying ones.

I honour the history that this practice originates from and believe that we must show as much respect as we can for these breathing techniques, by using them with as much integrity and gratitude as possible in this modern age.

Through sharing all of these healing modalities with you, coupled with my own understanding of the law of attraction gained through my personal experience, I aim to show you that through a holistic approach to life, we each have the power to transform and become our most authentic, joyous, and prosperous version of our selves.

When you think and feel differently, you act differently, which produces different results to that of the past. Step into your power by seeing the world differently and creating a new you.

Death

Death has played a huge part in my life. It is what ‘awoke’ me to who I am when my best friend died in front of me and shattered my egoic perception of the world. This is why I believe death is the most transformational teacher and that we are all having mini-deaths each day as we shed old beliefs and emotions and become a more aligned version of who we truly are.

As a Soul Doula, I offer emotional, spiritual and holistic support to people on their end of life journey. I support individuals who may feel lonely, scared, have no options or choices on their dying path and feel they can’t truly share how they feel deep down with family.

As a Soul Doula I create a safe space on a soul level for an individual to feel safe, loved and heard in the most important time of their life.

Business Mission Statement

My mission : To provide a safe space that enables you to discover your true perfection, create an empowered you, and see the world differently. This will be done as consciously, transparently and as honestly as possible between coach and client.

Let’s get one thing clear before we begin; I am not going to be doing any healing or healing anyone – I am going to be giving you the tools that I have used and have worked to heal me. No one ever heals you, you heal yourself because you are the only true power in your life. I will hold the space for you which I have been trained to do and this will enable you to create your own personal transformation. Do not think you are broken because you are going to ‘heal’ though; you are already perfect beneath everything and are divine.

We are just going to unlearn erroneous perceptions about yourself which are holding you back and release old emotions that reinforce those beliefs. As we release these, your true beauty which you have been masking or burying will begin to shine through, but know that it has always been there, you just chose to cover it up. This was learnt when you were growing up from people around you who had forgotten their own magnificence and then projected that onto you, which you gradually believed and accepted.

In this insatiable and instant culture of gratification we live in, we expect everything here and now, and when this doesn’t happen instantly, we can become disheartened, give up, and revert back to old patterns.

If you truly want to become the best and most authentic version of yourself that loves every second of life, I’m going to need a commitment from you. However old you are, you will have many years of programming that have helped you to get through life till this point and has served you, but hindered you at the same time. This will not be changed in one session. This will require you to work with me continuously on a weekly basis for 3 months minimum to begin to see how you have been holding yourself back.

This is me being honest now, we could have the most amazing enlightening 75 minute session where you begin to see what’s being holding you back, but as soon as you exit the door, old patterns kick back in to protect you, and all is forgotten. This is not a criticism, this is human nature.

So this will require a huge level of commitment from you, and to see full benefit, you will need more than one session with me to learn new patterns of behaviour. Your work won’t stop when you have left our sessions either, it will be your responsibility to apply the tools I will give you to your daily life and make big lifestyle adjustments. This can be scary and difficult, as the ego will cling to methods that have served you over the years, and will resist change. This is normal, but guess what, you can become more than normal and can do it. By taking accountability for your life and wanting to become the real you, you not only heal yourself, but you heal the world – isn’t that a thing of beauty? I believe in you.

I look forward to hearing from you, working with you, and watching you discover how truly perfect and powerful you already are.

With gratitude and love, Dave.

Be the change that you wish to see in the world – Mahatma Gandhi

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This book is an authentic, honest account of the author's life journey and spiritual awakening after the death of a close friend. I raced through most of the book in just a few days. I found it moving and laugh-out-loud funny at points. I love reading people's life stories, particularly when they have moved through some rough times - drinking, drugs and addiction - and onto more healing paths. Dave is an inspiration, and I am so grateful that he has shared his story with the world as it is sure to be an inspiration to others as it was for me.

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